Transactional Websites force people to "declare". We are now well beyond a generation routinely submitting to cyber clarity. Of course no one wants social discourse to be rigidly explicit...we like nuance, but....it seems to me that a little more "declaration" would be welcome.
Surely, we cyber literate beings can handle two "online modes", a "nuance mode for heart matters", and a "declaration mode for routine transactional encounters"
Perhaps it's me, but, it seems that most of my day is wasted by do-overs and misfires because too many people either "can't or won't" declare. I am not sure what's happening in the 7th grade, but someone needs to be explaining to young minds, no matter whether they're on their way to MickyD or MIT, that all of our lives will be better if we actually knows WTF "we be just sayin"!